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I only come to this site for the articles. Honest.

More important than breast or penis size is self respect and respecting others, no matter what race, culture, or heritage.

The only breasts or penises in this world subject to your questions are your own. But it's only natural to be curious about how yours compare with others - so when you're done scrutinizing what you look like in a tank top, and when you've finished with rulers and measuring how full you can fill a calibre test tube, you've become secure with your body. Collect your maturity and confidence and pass GO.

Loved it!

"And not being attractive reduces your chances of getting laid...motivated now are we?" I BURST out laughing, so true and funny!

laird nailed it

last picture is WTF in sign language!

Hi Chica! On the one hand I'd love to find my Tyson Beckford, buy a house in the suburbs and live happily ever after but then I'd miss out on all the free entertainment!!

(Haha, that sounded so stereotypical: another example of an Indian trying to get free stuff! ;)

For one thing, the 'yellow fever' phenomenon disproportionately leans towards asian women than men (i.e. there are way more asian women with men of other ethnicities than asian men with women of other ethnicities).

Excluding stereotypes pertaining to physical attributes, guys go for asian women specifically because of the stereotype that they're submissive, docile, etc., which are typically seen as negatives (especially to independent women); whereas, the stereotype for asian guys is that they're studious, hard working, loyal, etc...all considered positive attributes.

Just on that basis alone, the fundamental reason for hooking up with an asian woman vs. asian man is very different.

what about asian men.. pft

It's unfortunate that the double standard exists in the first place, because I agree that it is laughable that one gender is held to a higher standard than another on the exact same issue. However, while your frustration is understandable, when you put it into context, it's no wonder that sexually liberated women are frustrated and will likely continue to face such hypocrisy for some time.

I mean, if you think about it, women's rights, sexual liberation, changing gender roles, and all that is associated with the aforementioned are all relatively new phenomena (within the scope of human history). Being such novel ideas, many things need to change to accommodate such a massive shift in dogma. And we only need to look into the past 50 years of human history to realize that change, especially change having to do with or somewhat founded on ideology and social mores, are tremendously difficult to change -- notwithstanding the logic supporting said change (think: racism, sexism, decency, etc.). And that's just the past 50 years of human history. The frustration and double standard that we're talking about here is founded on hundreds of years of sociology.

Whether rightly or wrongly, the double standard is likely here to stay for some time. The question is: what do we do about it?

Charles Darwin's survival of the fittest is often misinterpreted as the survival of the strongest, when in fact, he actually intended it to mean survival of the most adept (i.e. fittest = one's ability to quickly adapt to the changing environment). So in today's environment where things haven't really changed all that much despite major transformations in education, technology, etc., what is the best way to approach and resolve the frustration? The "simple" answer would be to homogenize everyone's respective ideology pertaining to religion, gender roles, cultural norms and mores, etc., but obviously, that's virtually impossible (if we use history as any indicator of future success). So what's the alternative? Change your perspective...accept that, for the most part, the dichotomy is something that won't change for a while (and it's rare when you come across a man who doesn't believe in the dichotomy) and navigate knowing and accepting this fact -- it's simply another obstacle.

Guys, we have a really basic rationale in situations like this (i.e. situations that aren't ideal, but ones we can't change)...and it's literally so simple it's complex. It's as follows: It is what it is, so get on with it (aka deal with it).

I love DD.. therefore i love this article!!