Julie

Canadian Music Week 2010

Next to Winterlicious (and, of course, Summerlicious) my favourite week in Toronto is the Canadian Music Week (aka Canadian Music Fest [CMF]).  Lucky for me, it starts in a few days, and it’s huge this year!

From March 10-14th, 45 different clubs, bars, and venues in the city light up with talented musical acts from Canada and beyond.  From unknown indie singer-songwriters to international superstars, there’s something for every musical taste.

Dating on Ice

I’ve just finished watching the Canada v. Russia AND Canada v. Slovaks Olympic Men’s hockey games and, obviously, I’m on a total hockey-high.  Those were some incredible games of hockey.  It made me realize that I don’t just love Olympic hockey (particularly when we’re pounding on old rivals), but hockey in all of its wonderful forms.

With that in mind, those of us who are masochistic enough to be Leafs' fans haven’t had much to celebrate in a while.  It’s easy to forget, though, that the Leafs aren’t the only ticket in town.  The Toronto Marlies of the American Hockey League (The farm team of the Leafs') are quietly playing some excellent hockey just a short ride away.

The Movies Done Right

As a general rule, I don’t go to the movies on a first date.  That’s not to say that I don’t love the movies.  I’m a total film geek and the theatre experience is one of my favourite recreational activities.  However, the reason I’m against it for a first date is that it requires you to sit somewhat uncomfortably next to each other for two hours in complete silence (and it had better be complete silence – people that talk in movie theatres are a special kind of evil).  The first date should be all about conversation!  How else are you going to know if you want a second date or not?

So, once you’ve got the all-important talking date out of the way, the movies are a classic date option. 

Dating Cultures

A friend of mine is going through a tough time.  She’s experiencing a lot of backlash from her family for introducing them to her boyfriend, who is of a different race and religion than they are.   We searched online together for suggestions for coping with her situation and we realized that it’s a pretty common occurrence here in Toronto.

We live in an extremely diverse city.  It’s part of what makes this such an amazing place to live.  We have the benefit of exposure to so much rich culture and experience (and food!).  It’s also a potential minefield when it comes to dating.

With casual dating across cultures becoming more and more prevalent, it would seem that now is the perfect time to discuss the importance of open-mindedness and frank communication in order to avoid accidental offence and enjoy the perks of dating someone from another culture (did I mention food?).

Take in the Arts (For Cheap!)

A little while back, I told you about the Canadian Opera Company in Toronto, and how they offer $30 tickets to the majority of their performances if you’re under 30 years old.  Well, they’re not the only cultural entities that are appealing to a younger generation of Torontonians.  Both the Toronto Symphony Orchestra and the National Ballet of Canada have similar offers.

Winter Warm-up

By Toronto standards, the weather really isn’t all that bad right now.  We haven’t had that many really bitter cold days and we certainly can’t complain about the amount of snow we’ve seen thus far.  Still, I think we’re overall summer people here in the city.  There’s no denying that we love our patios.  When I used to wait tables, there was always such joy on the faces of those brave souls who would don their coats and toques and sit on the patio on the first day it opened, pretending it was warmer than it invariably was.

If you’d like to inspire the feelings that those heady, carefree days of summer bring out in many of us, bring your date to one of the heated, enclosed patios that are scattered around the city.

Breaking 'The Rules'

I was discussing with some friends this week the fact that I’m writing about dating.  Their responses were a little disheartening -  “Are you writing the next ‘The Rules’?”, “Ooh, are you Carrie, now?” and “Look at you, Dr. Phil!” - not only because they’re all references to things that make my skin crawl, but because they made me realize just how cynical and analytical we’ve become about dating.

What is it about dating that’s caused us to become so jaded, to turn it into a science, examine it from every angle, and, in some instances, to claim to have discovered the formula for doing it "successfully"?

Is it because we think we know it all because we have an abundance of information readily available at our fingertips?  Or is it because we've socially evolved into impatient beings due to the fact that we can get whatever we want whenever we want (think: PVR)?   Or, is it because dating has become so incredibly complicated that we’ve had no choice but to try and break it down in order to understand it?  To survive it?  To succeed?

There are so many factors to consider with modern dating. 

Get Down and Dirty!

The response to the earthquake in Haiti from Canadians has been pretty incredible.  Almost everyone I know has donated something, even a few dollars, to help with the relief effort.  I even know a couple of people who've gone there to do what they can.  The kindness and support that people all over the world have shown for their fellow mankind is truly a beautiful thing.  It kind of gives you that warm, fuzzy feeling inside, doesn’t it?

So it got me thinking about making that feeling last, and sharing it with someone else.  What better way to do that than to do some good right here in our o

Winterlicious 2010

I’ve always been a fan of the classic dinner date, and not solely because I’m a raging foodie.  The dinner date allows for almost infinite variables and customizability.  It can be formal or casual.  It can be a comfortable favourite or an exotic adventure.  You can choose to be entertained or to simply entertain each other.  Most importantly, the pleasure of good food just seems to be heightened with company.

A Night at the Opera

If you want to impress a date, nothing beats the romance and grandeur of a night at the opera.  It’s one of those cultural activities that we’re all conscious of, but so few of us have actually experienced.  Lucky for us, we have a world class opera house here in downtown Toronto.

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