I was discussing with some friends this week the fact that I’m writing about dating. Their responses were a little disheartening - “Are you writing the next ‘The Rules’?”, “Ooh, are you Carrie, now?” and “Look at you, Dr. Phil!” - not only because they’re all references to things that make my skin crawl, but because they made me realize just how cynical and analytical we’ve become about dating.
What is it about dating that’s caused us to become so jaded, to turn it into a science, examine it from every angle, and, in some instances, to claim to have discovered the formula for doing it "successfully"?
Is it because we think we know it all because we have an abundance of information readily available at our fingertips? Or is it because we've socially evolved into impatient beings due to the fact that we can get whatever we want whenever we want (think: PVR)? Or, is it because dating has become so incredibly complicated that we’ve had no choice but to try and break it down in order to understand it? To survive it? To succeed?
There are so many factors to consider with modern dating.